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Progressive muscle relaxation (PMR)
Progressive muscle relaxation is a simple technique: you gently tense one group of muscles, then release it and notice the difference. Working through the body this way can help you let go of tension you didn't realise you were holding.
Step-by-step cards with a timer and an optional spoken voice.
How to do progressive muscle relaxation
Sit or lie somewhere comfortable. For each area below, tense the muscles gently for about five seconds (never to the point of pain), then release and relax for ten seconds or more, noticing how the area feels as it softens. Breathe normally throughout.
The full routine takes around five minutes. In the app it guides you step by step with a timer and an optional spoken voice.
When to use it
- In bed, to help your body settle before sleep.
- After a stressful day, when your shoulders and jaw feel tight.
- Before something nerve-racking, to release built-up tension.
Take care
Skip any area that is injured, painful or recently operated on. If you have a condition affecting your muscles or joints, keep the tension very light, or simply notice and relax each area instead.
The 11 steps
Hands
Tense (5 seconds): Make tight fists with both hands. Squeeze and notice the tension.
Release (10 seconds): Let your fingers uncurl. Feel warmth and heaviness flow in.
Arms
Tense (5 seconds): Bend your elbows and tense your upper arms, like showing off your muscles.
Release (10 seconds): Drop your arms to rest. Notice the difference between tight and loose.
Shoulders
Tense (5 seconds): Lift your shoulders up towards your ears and hold.
Release (12 seconds): Let them fall heavily. Feel the space open up around your neck.
Forehead
Tense (5 seconds): Raise your eyebrows high and wrinkle your forehead.
Release (10 seconds): Let your brow smooth out, as if someone gently brushed it.
Eyes & Cheeks
Tense (5 seconds): Squeeze your eyes shut and scrunch your cheeks.
Release (10 seconds): Let your face go soft. Eyelids light, cheeks loose.
Jaw
Tense (5 seconds): Gently press your teeth together and feel your jaw tighten.
Release (12 seconds): Let your mouth fall slightly open. Your jaw hangs easy.
Chest
Tense (5 seconds): Take a deep breath in and hold it, feeling your chest expand.
Release (12 seconds): Breathe out slowly. Feel your chest soften and settle.
Stomach
Tense (5 seconds): Pull your stomach in tightly towards your spine.
Release (10 seconds): Release and let your belly be soft and round. Nothing to hold in.
Legs
Tense (5 seconds): Press your thighs together and tense the muscles in your legs.
Release (10 seconds): Let go. Feel your legs sink heavily into the floor or chair.
Feet
Tense (5 seconds): Curl your toes downwards and tense your feet.
Release (10 seconds): Uncurl your toes and let your feet rest completely.
Whole Body
Tense (5 seconds): Gently tense everything at once, from your face to your toes.
Release (15 seconds): Release it all. Breathe slowly and enjoy how heavy and calm you feel.
Wind down further
- Sleep soundsDrift off to rain, waves or soft noise.
- 4-7-8 breathingA slow wind-down breath for bedtime.
Questions people ask
How long does progressive muscle relaxation take?
This routine takes about five minutes. You can repeat any step, or spend longer on the areas that feel tightest.
Can progressive muscle relaxation help with sleep?
Many people use it in bed as part of a wind-down routine, because it gives the mind something calm to focus on while the body relaxes.